Midjourney prompt/"meandering career"

In Praise of the Meandering Career

Build a compass, not a map

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@luispaisbernardo almost 2 years ago

hey Simone. this is the first time I have posted. I'm 38. A kid. A temp job at a mediocre college in backwater Portugal. A PhD I can't remember. A marriage I'm fully committed to but with a stance I'd liken to a mixture between Munch and the Matrix. I've meandered. I've worked with refugees out of an unspoken sense of kinship (I know, it's shameful, but I can't help it). I've been a journalist. I try being a good, helpful, diligent academic, but I can't help feeling stupid in this most esoteric of worlds. So I read a shitload. Fiction, nonfiction. Sci-fi and ridiculous essays trying to prove how smart the author is.

So your essay drops. I'm halfway through a wine bottle - red, cheap, unassuming, just like me flying through midnight. And I find that I'm just a bit less desperate. And it's a fine notion. So thanks.

@luispaisbernardo I'm currently living in Portugal. If you need a friend, message me or contact me on Every's discord.

Simone Stolzoff almost 2 years ago

@luispaisbernardo what a beautiful and well-written late-night note! Luis, it feels like you're an old friend. Appreciate your honesty and kind words.

@luispaisbernardo almost 2 years ago

@Tintin I'll get in touch! But don't worry, my desperation is Thoreau in ironic mode. Trying to cross into epicurean territory, which would be a midlife crisis I could enjoy?

@luispaisbernardo almost 2 years ago

@luispaisbernardo almost 2 years ago

@simonestolzoff Deleted the damn comment, no clue as to why. I did feel a sense of kinship towards you, so, truly, thank you. about the note, English is my third language, so I guess we found a sentient wine who used me as a vessel? Anyways, thanks. I read Every occasionally; I'll now bookmark.

@sheshallconquer almost 2 years ago

This piece aligns with my own career journey.
I am reticent to call it meandering though, because it hasn't had the whimsical, casual feeling I associate with meandering. I've begun associating it with the concept of Bricolage though. When asked about "job-hopping" or "swiss-cheese knowledge" or how "interesting" my CV is, I worry that meandering feels too non-committal. Bricolage being a practice of using the tools and resources that are available to me right now to address the problems and opportunities in front of me is a way of introducing that:
1. At times I've had less tools and resources that I would've liked, so I've had to make do,
2. I've picked up new tools that I can apply in a deeply transferrable way because to learn and adapt one must abstract and understand quickly,
3. Responsiveness to problems and opportunities is more valuable than a pedigreed training—this includes learning, adaptation, and centring the needs of the various people rather than bureaucratic procedure

It's been 5 years since completing my small honours thesis on meaning, agency, and empowerment for workers and it's such a relief to find more and more pieces like this that inevitably hit the same notes! As my world grows bigger, so does the validation that we are not alone in this journey of navigation. Thanks, Simone!

I'm intrigued by the final paragraph, about the resistance one will encounter in response to this journey of self-discovery. I'm wondering if this path of connecting to the work that we do will make those checked out kind of jobs more intolerable, that if we are truly invested in the work we are doing, we will take it more seriously, ask more questions, be less willing to just do what is asked if it doesn't make sense—does this not make us then less employable for most work that exists?

Control / power is such an insidious faculty of many organisations large or small, has anyone encountered resistance? and if so, are there good methods of soothing the discomfort or anxiety of control seeking managers? Or ways of communicating and asserting needs /boundaries so that it is well received? Does the pool of opportunities just shrink drastically to only allow for people who are tolerant or on the same path?

Resources in case anyone is seeking: Paul Millerd (and Anne Helen Petersen) is a great recommendation! Here are a few others I've found inspiring and like a homecoming.
1. David Whyte's Crossing the Unknown Sea,
2. Hunter S Thompson's Ninth Path letter to Hume (Masterfully discussed by Russel Max Simon),
3. Kahlil Gibran's On Work from The Prophet,
4. Ed Zitron (on an org level),
5. Dr Gena Gorlin's substack,
6. Gabor Mate on work (recommend the Bioneers talk on Toxic Culture to start, pretty sure this is covered by the Myth of Normal),
7. My greatest source of inspiration has probably been the work of Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, starting with Creativity (as the kind of work I aspire to), Flow, and currently Good Business—which unpacks everything from societal and cultural factors to the individual habits, tasks, and ways of shaping a life that is fulfilling.

--- adding this post as well to the list! Thanks again, Simone!
Also, regarding: "Wander on, fellow traveler. I’m right there with you."
This reminds me of the Keri Smith's sentiments in The Wander Society, and perhaps this is an apt space for her "Solvitur ambulando" exhortation. I certainly would like for work to become more fulfilling and meandering rather than desperate sprints to survive.

@stevo1971 almost 2 years ago

It makes sense to carve your own path... because you learn transferable skill sets no one else can take away from you.