My Custom Instructions

Using ChatGPT Custom Instructions for Fun and Profit

How to 10x ChatGPT with personalized answers

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ChatGPT Custom Instructions are mysterious and powerful. For the woefully (and shamefully) uninitiated, it’s a function of ChatGPT that allows you to give background information on who you are, and how you want ChatGPT to respond to you.

This is crazy awesome! The only problem: no one uses them. This is crazy terrible.

Using Custom Instructions properly can completely transform your experience with ChatGPT. Custom Instructions will help you turn ChatGPT into a personalized, always-on, super-smart coach and tutor that knows who you are, your strengths and weaknesses, and the people in your life, so it can help you make better decisions and achieve your goals. You won’t have to explain anything twice because it will already know enough context about you to help—and it will do so in ways that surprise and delight you.

Let me give you an example. 

Recently, I was playing around with the idea of starting a new course for Every—and I wanted ChatGPT to help me decide whether to do it. I prompted it with one sentence: “i'm thinking about starting a new course. can you help me think it through?” I did this without Custom Instructions to start and got this back:

“Of course! Making a decision about starting a new course is significant and can benefit from a structured thought process. Here's a step-by-step guide to help you think it through:

  • Define Your Goal: Why do you want to take this course?
  • For personal development or interest....”

Big fat F. It completely misunderstood the question—it thought I wanted to take a course and not build one—and the advice it gave me was decent but banal.

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Then, I turned Custom Instructions on and gave it the same starting prompt. Here are a few of the responses (emphases are mine):

Purpose: What's the primary goal of the course? Is it to augment your existing offerings at Every, serve as a standalone product, or something else?”

Content Depth: Given your love for detailed, intellectual writing, how in-depth will you go on each topic?”

Guest Contributions: Do you plan to involve guest experts, perhaps even some of your writing heroes or team members like Kate Lee and Evan Armstrong?”

Time Investment: Given that you're already grappling with being too opportunistic and dutiful, how will you allocate time for this without sidelining your creative work or burdening yourself?”

This is SO. FREAKING. COOL. 

ChatGPT reeled off gem after gem. It knows about Every, the company I run. It knows who’s on my team at Every and asks me how they can help. It knows what kind of writing I like to do so it can help me integrate it into the course planning. And the kicker: it knows that I’m working on being a little less opportunistic—on not jumping on shiny new things, and staying focused on longer-term priorities. Because it knows this it can ask, “Are you sure this is a good idea given your tendencies, buster?”

Custom Instructions are good enough that I’d go so far as to say it is a crime if you are not using them. It’s a theft of your talent, time, and potential. So I am laying the gauntlet down now: 

If you are a subscriber to Every in 2023, and after reading this article, you’re still not using ChatGPT Custom Instructions, I am going to find you and whip you with a wet noodle until you do.

Why? It’s not that hard—and the benefits are enormous.

In this article, I’ll walk you through what ChatGPT Custom Instructions are and how to use them. I’ll share ideas for how to get the most out of them, and even share my custom instructions so you can steal them for yourself.

Ready? Let’s get going.

What are ChatGPT Custom Instructions?

You can think of ChatGPT as a genius amnesiac. It’s a genius because during its training it read and ingested the entire internet. But it’s an amnesiac because, now that it is trained, it cannot form new memories. Every interaction is like Drew Barrymore in 50 First Dates: it has to learn who you are (and why it loves you) over and over again.

Because we live in the real world and not in a romantic comedy, this is annoying and time-consuming. You have to continually repeat information, and you won’t use ChatGPT to its full potential because it will miss ways to help you.

Fortunately, Custom Instructions fixes this. It doesn’t stop ChatGPT from being amnesiac, but it does mitigate it. It works like the dossier that politicians get before a meeting with an important donor: they read the file and know all of the important information they need even if they’ve never met the donor before.

With Custom Instructions, every time you start a new chat, it rereads its dossier, learns who you are and how you want it to talk to you, and formulates a response. 

The only problem is, unlike a politician, you have to write the dossier on yourself:

These blank text boxes are intimidating—so much so that I skipped out on using Custom Instructions for a while. I just couldn’t find a way in. Luckily, I’ve written this guide to help you with that.

Custom Instructions is split into two categories: Biographical Info and Response Style. We’ll go through how to set up each in the following sections.

Biographical info: how to tell ChatGPT who you are

Name and bio

The first thing you’ll want to do is give ChatGPT your name and bio. I wrote mine like this:

“My name is Dan Shipper, I'm a writer and entrepreneur based in New York. I run Every (https://every.to)—a newsletter about startups, tech, AI, and personal development.”

If writing something like this is hard for you, just go to your LinkedIn profile and copy and paste it into ChatGPT. Ask it to summarize your LinkedIn in three sentences and presto—you’ll have a bio you can use. 

Projects and goals

The next thing you’ll want to inform Custom Instructions about are your current projects and goals.


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Charlie Uniman over 1 year ago

Clear and comprehensive - those qualities had me award this article the “Amazing” one-word comment. I can’t wait to put this article to work in driving ChatGPT to help me further my community/newsletter/podcast business. All in all, subscribing to Every is one of my best decisions.

Dan Shipper over 1 year ago

@cuniman thanks so much!! that means a ton. really glad to have you as a subscriber!

@sara_9859 over 1 year ago

This was incredibly helpful - thank you! Just crafted my custom instructions and it's already paying off - top advice, cheers from Wales!

Dan Shipper over 1 year ago

@sara_9859 that’s awesome!!! Let us know if you discover anything new or useful! Happy it’s working well for you

@hmiitdh over 1 year ago

This was really helpful, Dan. I'm trying to be better at making the most of ChatGPT as a content creator and comedian. This helped.

Dan Shipper over 1 year ago

@hmiitdh awesome!! if you find any good tips and tricks please share :)

Daniel Nest over 1 year ago

I've known (and even written tips about) Custom Instructions for months now, but your article finally gave me the motivation and the framework to actually put them to use. I'll be giving it a try shortly, thank you!

Dan Shipper over 1 year ago

@WhyTryAI w00t!! i hope it works as well for you as it does for me!

@wthoover over 1 year ago

Fantastic article! I use CI's every day and still learned a new way to improve/enhance how I use them from your advice. Thank you!

Simon Mayeski over 1 year ago

Amazingly good! I've been using Custom Instructions and Response Style (not as well) for awhile writing fiction, but I've been planning some non-fiction work and this article is REALLY helpful. Thank you!

Dan Shipper over 1 year ago

@simon_1861 so glad you liked it!

@gmgunn over 1 year ago

This article was incredibly helpful. I gave it this instruction: "If I ask you to give me options, ask me if one of them sounds good and actionable. If I like one, push me to take the next step to act on it." It's helped me to go from indecisive exploration to actually doing something at the end of the session.

Dan Shipper over 1 year ago

@gmgunn oooh this is a good one, I'm going to try that! thanks for sharing

Carl Baker over 1 year ago

This was an incredible article. It explain things in a simple way using custom instructions is something that I’ve often wanted to try, but didn’t know where to start. This is gonna be a game changer.

Dan Shipper over 1 year ago

@carlbaker woohoo!! so glad you thought so, please share what works for you!

Sarah Moore over 1 year ago

This post 🤌🏼 Thanks for the thorough walkthrough. This helped me dig into some areas of custom instructions I didn't know I wanted!

Dan Shipper over 1 year ago

@smoore1383 really glad!! hope it helps!

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